Look. Simple. Everybody is not like you. Mark my words. People ask you for help, take help, thank you and just let go. Sometimes, they don’t even thank. They want their work done and that’s it for them. You were just a way, not the goal. Nobody sees, to what extent you’ve helped them, in what conditions you were there with them. They don’t notice that you’ve left your important works JUST TO HELP THEM. I’ve no intentions to persuade you from land of kindness to world of cruelty. No. I really don’t want that. But the thing I want you to know is you’ve to start thinking for yourself. Before anyone else. It’s the experience that says. And don’t you feel it’s better to learn from others’ mistakes than to learn by going through all the things yourself? You don’t have to stop being kind. You don’t have to be selfish. You don’t have to, really. Look. You need to observe, ponder, analyse people as well as the situation; find out if you can help them without loss of yours, remind yourself of the things they had done to you. IF your brain says ‘yes’ to help, then go ahead. Notice that I’ve intentionally mentioned ‘brain’ instead of ‘heart’. And now coming to why do you feel everybody is so mean to you. So, let me tell you. You’re such a good soul that if someone does bad to you, then too, you would be ready to help them. Why your mind says that they are mean to you, just because you can’t even think to do so. And when you feel they have done something wrong to somebody, you don’t feel good because in your point of view, they should have been kind as you would have been. And when this wrote happens to you, you call them selfish and mean. Basically, we compare others with ourselves. And another most important thing is, you don’t have to be kind to EVERYONE. Your niceness isn’t free, people have to earn your niceness. As a good ending, I would like to say a quote for you, “Try to keep that person happy whom you see everyday in mirror.” Simple but awesome advice. Take care. ♡ All the best for everything. 😀
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