Society may or may not accept, but it's all about our personal and mutual decision to have sex or not. If I love him and trust my life with him, what's stopping us..😅
I consider myself liberal in this matter, though I'm from a very conservative middle class Indian family. I strongly agree as long as they are adult, its upto them,
I'm a girl in my 20s and in a well reputed career and from a sound family, my family is pretty conservative and sex is kinda weird topic for us. But, lol why do we need social acceptance or are we gonna tell public and parents that we are going to have sex?
I mean if they love each other, why can't they, it's just our mutual decision. But that doesn't mean I agree with stupid tons of hook ups and one night stands, that's disgusting to be honest, I can't trust my life with someone who just slept previously with tons of other women. Also lot of teens are these days are spoilt, unlike older days, these days they have more freedom so they start sexual activity and trying to lose virginity at very younger age like 14s and 15s.
I consider that disgusting, they are still KIDS, even have no idea how reproduction works and for sure those those relationships will mostly fade out, why do they want to get laid at such a younger age, maybe curious, but a person with right morals knows how to control their urges. I was rather studying for my better future and career instead of running into time pass useless relationships.. in which they see no future together.
Glad that I did so, now I'm in a sound career and looking back I have no regrets, no break ups, no cheating, nothing. I lived a good life..
The way I meant I'm liberal doesn't mean I will do it with anyone, pre marital sex only if I feel that connection and I see a future together, only if I'm sure that this person deserves to have me, so I don't have to regret in future, and not for fun's sake, because I believe sex is sacred so are you, you can't let random people use you! You're a jewel, save it for someone special.
For example, if I truly love someone and if i can trust him with my life, for sure, if I'm comfortable I will let him have me, because there exist true love and I love him. Not just lust, what's the restriction then, I say that because I'm a serious person so I never get with a guy unless I see a future together with him, I don't think it's wrong to do it with a person u really love. There should be some emotional connection before a physical relationship.
SEX, Take that away and you'll realize that not many individuals have much to offer. This generation is so desperate for physicality that it has forgotten that mental connections are rare and the real thing!
Real love is when both of them know their values and not desperate enough to get in between each others pants, they know they are going to be together forever so they are not rushing! The real relationship is all about caring and sacrifices and the love we have for each other. Not the physical touch and show off like this generation shows these days.
I haven't done it yet, no rush and not desperate. waiting for the right person I guess!😇
But trust me boy, hook ups and one night stands are disgusting, who wants a spouse who just slept with 5 or more boys previously, personally I don't want to settle for such a person. I deserve a person who is in same page as me and who was brought up with morals and values. The higher number of person they have been linked, more they are available, that's cheap. I better call them who*es. They lack self respect. You know, A girl with standards know the consequences so won't jump into stupid things to please her guy, they are Obstinate and not easy to sleep with, I mean they have values and morals, observe quite efficiently before taking someone seriously. But u know, thots *(whores) are easy to persuade and have sex with, they spread their legs for anyone irrespective of what the relationship is, all they need is temporary satisfaction. Pity on them.
Glad that my parents brought up me with good values and morals. I respect that! I'm not going to sleep around. At this daring age! We ofcourse are curious and get temptations! But we should know what's important in life. For me it's me and my morals, I value myself!Not gonna let random guy use me for pleasure. I'm more than a sexual material.
A good laugh with my loved one is more pleasurable and meaningful than a random sex! Fools out there say, best things in life are weed and sex! There's more value to life than that, bro! You're a treasure and keep it safe! Don't let random people use it! I'm just proud of myself! I never slept with someone's spouse in my early 20s. I'm saving myself for someone special. I uphold my values and career more than a casual sexual pleasure.
Btw it's a sensitive topic, so I'm writing this in my anonymous account.😅
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