Its not like everyone is desperate to find a partner. Ofcourse we need someone to fill the void which might have at some point in life and to grow old with and to make memories.
But once you're over 17 , too much social pressure and stupid ideologies like you're single because you can't get a partner? Wtf not everyone's priority is the same. Your priority is to find a gf/bf and have fun. Mine isn't that, I wanna be successful, I wanna be a good doctor, travel to my favorite places, achieve my Bucket list, be a good girl to my family, be a the women I always dreamt of myself.
These days social media and everything influence people a lot and a stigma that getting into relationship is the best thing.. then what? Many endless arguments, fights, possessive partners.
They literally look for partners because they got wrong priorities and can't focus on other worldly goals...and are insecure in need of comfort because they can't love themselves or a desperate pervert in need of lust.
I like to listen to songs of Alan walker because his vocals and lyrics are meaningful and something worthy, unlike all others whose 95% of all songs have lyrics about romantic relationships, ! Most of them sound so cheesy and stupid. Like, is that all people can sing about? Breakups. Bad relationships? Bleh. I've started getting a little more mellow about it.
Is there no other subject to write about..🤢🤢 life isn't all about relationship.
True love is important but these days people doesn't last together because they really didn't loved each other so wasn't able to compromise or trust each other.. EGO can't be solved when there is no love and connection!
but what I’m speaking of is the superficial and unnatural obsession. The illusion, Social media will tell people it’s the main most important thing in life like it’s a necessity. It’s just sad for me to see little children who haven’t even reached puberty obsessing over a boyfriend/girlfriend. but there’s plenty other things to enjoy in life so many other experiences and emotions. It’s just some people seem to live their lives looking towards the ground forgetting the whole world around them. So that’s what I meant about the mundane stuff it’s important but it’s not everything in this life. I just wondered why so many people felt it was and only see it that way. Love is very important for emotional growth but we should grow in all areas in our life not just one.
Your Life is about you, not about him/her. It's all Bout your guts and what you make out of it.
You die alone, who knows the one you're with now is going to last how many days?*(in most people's case)
Only you can complete yourself, nobody else can..
FIND YOURSELF BEFORE YOU RUN BEHIND FINDING A PARTNER, you do that because YOU JUST CAN'T LOVE YOURSELF.
There are certain things which only you can feel, it's all about you, like feeling the cold breeze, a beautiful visit, experiencing a beautiful scenery, having a delicious food, the people who you grow up with, your families love for you, your career sucess, able to afford your favorite things, a good laugh with your friends and loved ones all these are Bout you, no love can fill this for you.
There should be place for everything in life. It's sad that many people even forget the family they grew up with and priorities changes.
Yes people are just brain washed in such a way that sex and love is cool,. No it isn't.
Well u you will get to know as you grow older.. what's important in life.
Finding a partner maybe a option in late 20s. People fooling around and bullshiting around to find Gf or bf is stupid. You gotta build a meaningful life. Getting a partner moreover increases the stress only except in some rare cases.
Unintelligent fools are focusing on relationships than building themselves or because of their low self esteem they can't focus on themselves or the strongest elucidation I've of them is they have no real goal in life, so following the herd and getting influenced by what the society tells them.
I want someone I can trust and means something more to me, or someone on my same level of emotional intelligence and a reasoning someone with I can speak out my opinion about the universe and life. Its not always a talk about lingerie and condoms like most couples do..
I want someone with whom I can talk about the unknown.
doesn't have to be like the one I want to spend all eternity with because you never know how life will go but there has to be something special and I need to feel very very comfortable with the guy for that it requires good years of friendship and loyalty and not like these days lust filled relationships which doesn't even last upto a cheeseburgers expiry date.
Its important to find someone who love you for who you're.
The problem is the ideaology, concept and perception of love is very different from actual reality. Typically the 2 clash together like a wave and a rock causing huge turmoil, disruption and destruction whenever the reality of human relationships collides with the fantasy of love and romaticism but as humans we don't accept what is the truth and embrace the rock instead we want to fight against it and be the wave because the ideology of it is so much prettier, warmer, cosier, snugger and perfect than the cold hard truth of reality.
I am of the belief that we will meet our life partners when we do not focus our attention on getting one but focus on achieving our goals. Fully paying attention to one's life goals and yet managing to find that special someone means that the person one has found is ideal because no matter what, he/she has stood by her/him and remained loyal. And even if, unluckily, something happens and the two of them break up, the person still has his/her career because that was always the first priority. This should be the ideal way of living according to me.
What is more important is mutual understanding, sharing of pain and suffering, tolerance, sympathy, forgiveness and many good things on.
With an inch of temptations we say I love you without understanding what it really means to our mind and heart. Love is the most difficult and incomprehensible word that has ever been used in history.
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