Things i want to remind myself : )
1. I'm beautiful the way I'm. You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous to be happy.
An individual has more to offer than looks.
You need to fucking realise that you're smart enough to be a doctor. You're rational, you're amazing!!!
2. You have plenty of opportunities infront of you, plenty of smiles yet to cherish, plenty of fun, pelnty of places you're yet gonna go, plenty of amazing people you're yet to meet.
Hold on beautiful.
3. Never forget how far you've come in life, it wasn't easy, yet you reached this far, one time you had worked tirelessly for what you have now.
4. You're not boring, dont shrink yourself. People are good at diffrent things. Someday you will come across someone with similar wavelength. But it's a fact, you really have to put yourself out there, if you want to improve, no point in sitting your cave and crying without making any efforts.
5. Social anxiety. I am still working on it.
6. Learn to set boundaries with what you share to others, stop people pleasing, people deserves to be treated for who they are, you are not obligated or is responsible for someone's feelings. They can take it or leave it, that's it. Please be self assertive to speak up your opinions.
7. Be confident, you've no obligations to anyone to meet their expectations. You're an individual with whole lot pf perspective about how your life should be.
8. Realise the fact about ego. Your ego is a fundamental part and sometimes it governs you if you let them take the hold of you, when you're in public you feel like you're being judged, but infact nobody actually cares, you felt so because for your ego, everything is just about you. Same case with every individual, your makes you feel self aware and exaggerate the feelings about surrounding environment, well people might not care about you as much as you think.
9. Parents, my family, you've been taking them for granted a lot. Well, at the end of the day its only my family who that matters.
10. You already know your feelings are irrational so please stop dwelling on it.
11. Feed your mind with worthy contents.
12. Somebody else said no or disrespected you doesn't mean you're worthless.. you are one hell of a individual ;)
That more likely says about that individual than about you.
13. Stop comparing yourself to someone else. Everyone has different life, they are not me and im not them either. I'm me.
14. Dont panic about missing out, life is short, you can't do everything, but something so make it worth :) and you're here in a small city in india. Its not a big thing to be ashamed of, i have my loved ones here and they make my life more meaningful and i don't think anybody else would love me unconditionally as my parents do.
15. I know it's hard to follow what you preach, but best thing you can do is, invest sometime for yourself every single day, no matter what, read this, this will slowly get ingrained into your subconscious mind and you'd be able to rewire your mindset. :)
Babygirl, glow😇😊 i love it when you shine... there's more happiness on the way..
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