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Society?
Isn't we all are trying to make it up in career, get married, get kids so on, so as to what society and what people want us to be.. 

After who is this society to tell me what should i do.. or anyone should do.. 
At the moment before i die only things thats gonna tear me out is the regrets and moments i enjoyed. Never the face of society.

Marriage, we were told such a way, to find the one and settle down. 
As i grow older, my values, and my perspectives have changed a lot and now i dont think getting married is anything at all. 
Ofcourse i owe to my parents and i love them, but i have to decide for myself. 
I want to explore, do adventures, discover myself and add meaning to my existence and not merely gonna spend my life all here in a small city trapped in routines and life long commitments. 
Sorry, no.. 
Ofc finding love is a thing, i mean the compatible partner, which includes someone who find it interesting to talk to you everyday and accept your flaws and loving as if you're made for him. And yea definitely common interests and vibes. 
At that point i don't think marriage is necessary because i think the fairy tale and finding the one and happily married doesn't work forever..
As we grow older, some are lucky, they stick together forever...
But sometimes, as we mature our personalities we might come to realise that there things you both dont sync anymore. At that instance i think its better to break than sticking together. 

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